FOR ALL OF MY OLD FRIENDS, MY GIFT TO YOU TODAY!
One day I had lunch with some old friends. Tom, a short, balding golfer type, about 75-years old, came along with them; all in all, it was a pleasant bunch.
When the menus were presented, my friends and I ordered salads, sandwiches, and soups, except for Tom who said, “A large piece of home-made apple pie, heated please. I wasn’t sure my ears heard him right, and the others were aghast, when Tom continued, completely unabashed….”along with two large scoops of vanilla ice cream.”
We tried to act quite nonchalant, as if people did this all the time, but when our orders were brought out, I didn’t enjoy eating mine. I couldn’t take my eyes off of Tom as I watched him savoring each bite of his pie a-la-mode. The other guys just grinned in disbelief as they silently ate their lunches.
The next time I went out to eat, I called Tom and invited him to join me. I lunched on a white meat tuna sandwich, while he ordered a chocolate parfait. Since I was chuckling, he wanted to know if he amused me. I answered, “Yes, you certainly do, but you also confuse me. How come you always order such rich desserts, while I feel like I must be sensible in my food choices?”
He laughed and said “I’m tasting all that is possible for me to taste. I try to eat the food I need and do the things I should in order to stay healthy, but life is too short, my friend. I hate missing out on something good. This year I realized how old I was. He grinned. I’ve never been this old before, so, while I’m still here, I’ve decided it’s time to try all those things that, for years, I’ve been ignoring.” He continued, “I haven’t smelled all the flowers yet. There are too many trout streams I haven’t fished. There’s more fudge sundaes to wolf down and kites to fly overhead. There are too many golf courses I haven’t played. I’ve not laughed at all the jokes. I’ve missed a lot of sporting events and potato chips and cokes.”
“I want to wade again in water and feel ocean spray on my face. I want to sit in a country church once more and thank God for His grace. I want peanut butter every day spread on my morning toast. I want un-timed long distance calls to the one I love the most.
“I haven’t cried at all the movies yet, or walked in the morning rain. I need to feel wind on my face. So, if I choose to have dessert, instead of having dinner, then should I die before night fall, I’d say I died a winner, because I missed out on nothing. I filled my heart’s desire. I had that final piece of pie before my life expired.”
With that, I called the waitress over.. “I’ve changed my mind “I said, I want what he’s having, only add some more whipped cream!”
This is my gift to you – We need an annual Friends Day! If you get this twice, then you have more than one friend. Live well, love much, & laugh often – Be happy and enjoy doing whatever your heart desires. You only go around once on this crazy planet.
Be mindful that happiness isn’t based on possessions, power, or prestige, but on relationships with people we like, respect, and enjoy spending time with.
Remember that while money talks, ICE CREAM SINGS!
Have yourself a Wonderful Day! ANON
I really enjoyed this story and at nearly 87 it had a real impact. My older friend Jack Peck, I only have four friends left older than I am, shared this and I hope all of my friends, young and old, get a chuckle and share it with all you know. If anyone knows who wrote this please let me know so I can give credit to them making my day. My bucket list days are about over but tomorrow it might be a double banana split. Who knows? C Brewer
Right on Clyde. Right on! The Scottish Open is on at the moment. Amongst other things, I am going to book to be in the crowd in 2018. I wonât get many more chances.
Thanks for your blog.
Never give up. I never dreamed I would be nearing 87. I bought a new golf cart at 85 and I am shopping for a new car this fall. My life’s ambition is to be shot at 105 by a jealous husband. CB