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KISSING MY ANGEL GOODBYE

A TRUE LOVE STORY

Norma Maxey Brewer was my second wife after a teenage marriage that did not succeed for me. I first met her when she was thirteen. She was the daughter of my boss and a typical teenager.

When she graduated from high school at eighteen, my first wife and I took her and her best friend, Paula, to a Fats Domino and Little Richard concert at the Sportatorium in Dallas TX. Har dad, W. C. Maxey was transferred to another plant and I did not see Norma or her dad for some three years.

My desire to succeed took long hours at my work and my first wife was raising three children, Elizabeth, Brenda and Mark alone. A new assignment that lasted four months in Montreal Canada caused a divorce. Until my Angel died this was the saddest part of my entire 90 years of life.

After a few months of misery and reduction in statute and pay, Mr. Maxey invited me to come visit and have dinner.  I was surprised that Norma was there as she had won a very big beauty contest. Over the next few months I proposed, she accepted and we were married. My work improved and I was promoted. After getting my Masters Degree, I was offered an executive position as Director of Quality at Halliburton-Otis Engineering.  

My Angle and I have four fine and successful children, Laurie, David, Lisa and Leah. My work took me worldwide and my Angel raised these children  that were four years and four months apart in age. After five years, I went into business for myself and over the next eleven years I started eight companies in four countries and one partnership. In addition, my Angel not only helped with the business operations, she traveled with me to forty seven States and fifteen Countries. One of those companies, Quality Systems Registrar, is still actively in business after thirty years. I was one the founders, Norma and I are major shareholders, our daughter, Laurie is Chairman of the Board and Finance operations. Our son, David is a member of the Board of Directors.

My Angel and I moved to our dream home we had built on Toledo Bend Lake in deep East Texas on the Louisiana border. This happened on Christmas day 1991. Sadly, she stopped painting. She won several awards for her work, including a Blue Ribbon and other Ribbons at the State Fair of Texas and awards in other competitions. I joined her in retirement January 1, 1994 and our love for each other grew stronger. Having someone to grow old with is a must if you desire to be happy in your golden years. My biggest fear, if God allows me some more time to live, is having to live without my Angel, partner and love of my life.

We had started taking our entire family to the beach in 1990 and continued for 19 years. After she began losing her memory we stopped going, but some of the kids and grandkids still go. Our objective was to keep our family close together and it worked. Our family is rock solid and they are working hard to help me, but no one will ever replace my Angel.

These last three years have been hell but I even surprised myself. We have not traveled and our appointed son, Tim Trojanowski, has been our strength to be able to stay in our dream home. We had vowed to not ever allow either of us to die in a nursing home. Tim and my family have promised me they will make sure that I will never die in one.

It is hard to understand how God selects anyone to suffer this horrible disease but he called her home on January 23, 2021. By her last day, she had been on Morphine for three days and had not been able to swallow for two. I went back to my half bed, which was beside her hospital bed, and laid down and held her hand and went to sleep. I awoke about 2:30 and my daughter, Leah and granddaughter, Alyssa were in tears. I closed her eyes, kissed her for the last time and started crying.  That crying may never stop inside me.

She will never be forgotten and I am certain if there is a flower garden in heaven, she will be pulling weeds and smiling. When God calls me home, I hope I will get another hug and kiss with my Angel.

Clyde Brewer

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9 thoughts on “KISSING MY ANGEL GOODBYE

  1. Anonymous on said:

    What a beautiful love story. We did know Norma long, however it was easy to see what a beautiful person she was. Also how very much in love you two were. God bless you.

  2. Baxter Henderson on said:

    Beautiful Clyde. My heart is with you.

    Baxter

  3. Roger Tom Shoemaker on said:

    Clyde, your article about your Wife and her passing brought a lump to my throat and tears too my eyes ,I’ve admired you and cherished you as a friend for a great many years. It’s hard to imagine what you are going through having lost the love that existed between you and Norma. If at any time there is anything that I can be of help don’t hesitate to call!!

  4. Anonymous on said:

    I am so very sorry Clyde! We love you guys and miss you! Very sad we never got to the lake for a visit, but you are in our thoughts and prayers! Love Diane and Billy

  5. Robert L Carver on said:

    Your daughter Laurie sent me you site. This was a beautiful tribute to the love of your life. Laurie has been a close friend for almost 40 years and she has expressed the love between you and you wife and how much she loves both of you. If you ever want to just talk please feel free to give me a call. My heart goes out to you and you family for its loss.
    Bob C

    • Thank you Bob, our marriage was flawless for over 60 years even thou I was 8 years older. Even at 90 today the void in my life will be greater than anyone could understand. Her illness nearly stopped my several years and publishing over 1300 articles. I pray that I can find the motivation to get back to my reading and writing as long as God allows me a few more years to share the wisdom god gave me with my brain and my motivation to learn how to use it.

      • Anonymous on said:

        Trust that you will you voice and teaching are important as are you. I am not much to text but would enjoy taking with you and sharing. From my own experience in lives 78 years now has taught me many things. I see auxiliary things in you writings. Love never dies it just transform into an inside view wisdom/knowing what was will always be in your heart. What happens in the world is nothing compared to LOVE we shared and share in life. Stay safe and know there are those here that share the love you had with you wife and learned from it. They still need your guidance and wisdom.
        Bob Carver

      • Thanks Bob for your feed back. I am trying to revive my motivation to start writing again.

      • Anonymous on said:

        Glad you are progressing, sent Laurie something I put online by email. Ask her to forward it to you. See what you think and let me know.
        Stay in touch,
        Thank
        Bob Carver

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